Jan 3

By Dana,
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I write this morning from the icu waiting room. we've been here all night. for those who depend on this blog for information, here is an update. we were called in yesterday morning to meet with the doctor. he explained that things weren't going as well as we had hoped and my mother was indeed losing her battle. we made the decision to not start any type of life support. we are all here with her by the dozens. they are keeping her comfortable and sheared. now we must wait. I'm sorry for those of you who had to find out over this blog. God bless.

One Response to "Jan 3"

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 10:00 AM

    We are praying for Laura and for her journey into God's waiting arms. Open the window and let the angels take her to God where she will be at peace and no longer in pain. May God give you Dana, Kyle, Chad, Roni and all of the family courage & strength in this time of need now and in the coming days. I love you Laura.

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 10:00 AM

    this is my wish for you: comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, and love to complete your life.

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 11:19 AM

    I'm keeping my mind on you guys in my prayers and thoughts are with all of you. I had Laura's name added to the sick list this morning at church. I know it's really a rough road for all of you, and if you want to be angry with God and cuss a little, He will understand. Love to All, Gramma Katie

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 11:55 AM

    Weeks family,

    You guys have always had a special place in my heart and always will. My heart is breaking for you all. Stay strong and know that God will not give you more than you can handle. I am giving my love to all you, most especially Laura.

    Love

    Shawna

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 12:51 PM

    Dana,Kyle,Chad & Parella Family-
    My heart goes out to all of you during this difficult time. Dana, Kyle & Chad stay strong. Your family & friends are here for you.
    All my love to you Laura on your Journey. The Lord is waiting with open arms and you will no longer suffer or endure no more pain. You will be whole again.

    "Therefore I say to you,all things for which you pray and ask, believe that you have recieved them, and they shall be granted you."
    Mark 11:24
    Have Faith in God!

    I love you all-
    Lila

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 1:09 PM

    Glorious St. Anne, filled with compassion for those who invoke thee, and with love for those who suffer, heavily laden with the weight of my troubles, I cast myself at thy feet and humbly beg of thee to take the present affair of which I recommend to thee under thy special protection. Vouchsafe to recommend it to thy daughter, the Blessed Virgin Mary, and lay it before the throne of Jesus, so that He may bring it to a happy issue. Cease not to intercede for me until my request is granted. St Anne please give peace and healing to Laura in any way possible. For her children protect them in the journey ahead. Above all, obtain for them the grace of one day to be together healthy and happy again.

    Amen

    Prayer from my Grandmother's Book of Novenas
    Love Kathie

    Amen

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 3:56 PM

    There are no words. A mothers love is too special. I don't know any words to make this easier for any of you. There aren't any.I'm with you in prayer. I'll be here for you later. God Bless all of you, God Bless you Laura. I am so sad. Love you, Kyle, Dana and Chad

    Love,Nicki

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 5:11 PM

    There are no words that can comfort you and your family at this difficult time. Just know that you have many friends that are praying for all of you. God Bless Laura and God Bless you, Kyle, Dana, Chad, and the Parella Family.
    Tears of sorrow.
    Love Lorrie

  1. Sally Couser Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 5:31 PM

    Footprints in the Sand


    One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
    Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky. In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
    Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,other times there were one set of footprints.
    This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life,
    when I was suffering from anguish, sorrow or defeat,
    I could see only one set of footprints.

    So I said to the Lord,

    "You promised me Lord, that if I followed you, you would walk with me always.
    But I have noticed that during the most trying periods of my life there have only been one set of footprints in the sand.
    Why, when I needed you most,you have not been there for me?"
    The Lord replied,
    "The times when you have seen only one set of footprints in the sand,
    is when I carried you."

    He is carry all of you right now...love you all so very much.

    God Bless
    Sally C.

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 5:36 PM

    Kyle,Dana, & chad. Words can say how much we love you guys! You all are so strong. Our hearts are here for you. We are sitting in in the waiting room, pray and thinking about you. We are so happy you have such a great support system. If you need ANYTHING don't hesitate to ask.
    Aunt Laura, we love you!!!!!!!!! You have touched our hearts and lifes and have been there for us soo much. And are immensely grratful for our time together. You look so peace....I can see angels sitting on ur shoulders holding you close. We love you. Until met again...tony, deb, jess, and randy zappia

  1. Lonnie & Denise Smith (Auntie Denise) Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 6:37 PM

    Dana,

    If there is one thing that scripture does point to us, it is that God is in control and we’re not. We’re only asked to trust him, even when we don’t understand his reasoning. The Bible does provide us with many verses that can offer us comfort during our most difficult
    times. Even if you have read some - if not all - of these before, maybe there is a
    verse or two that may “speak” to you in a fresh way and even comfort you as you
    work through your grief.

    Though God brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction or grief to the children of men.
    Lamentations 3:32-33

    O LORD my God, I called to you for help and you healed me. Psalm 30:2

  1. Gary and Pam Agostini Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 6:56 PM

    Laura and family:

    Laura, know that we are thinking of you along with everyone else you have touched in your life. Love, strength, and all prayers will help through these difficult times. You all our so brave...

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 7:13 PM

    i love you all ohh soo very much!!!!my family and i are always here for you all!!! please please give laura a hug and kiss for me!!!i love you!!!....peace be with u...

    Tami...xoxoxo

  1. Karlee Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 7:41 PM

    To my wonderful dear family-
    I have told Aunt Laura many times how proud I am to call you family, even with the distant between us all. So many memories, the summers we spent with you guys, the Christmas times we spent,(Roni teaching me to "bang my head") and then as my kids got older the survivors. I have grown up with Aunt Laura being a wonderful role model, I hope I am half the woman and mother she is. The Lord smiles down on her and now I guess just wants to be with her now??? I can sure see why.
    I love all of you.
    Cousin Karlee Jo

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 8:08 PM

    It's hard to sit back and watch a love one go through what your mom is going through Kyle, Dana, Chad, and the rest of the Parella family and my brother Rick and my sister-in-law Lisa. Laura is a fighter I saw that at my dad's memorial. If god takes her it's for a reason which would mean it's her time to go. You all have treasuable memories and those will never be forgotten.

    God Bless
    Joanie
    (Rick's older sister)

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 8:11 PM

    My heart is breaking

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 9:09 PM

    Laura we love you!!!!

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 9:15 PM

    Wish I could hug you all...my heart hurts.

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 9:45 PM

    Laura...u are a wonderful woman. I am so glad that I had the pleasure of meeting you and having you in my life. You are a great person-woman, mom, sister, friend, etc... I am so sad and nothing I can say can ease the pain you and your family are going through-----and WOW what a great family!! I love you and will miss you. I'm still crying..

  1. Sally C. Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 10:17 PM

    Laura...your legacy is in your children...what a beautiful legacy you have left for us.

  1. Anonymous Says:
    January 3, 2010 at 10:39 PM

    A glimpse of what is to come...
    For we know that when this earthly tent we live in is taken down-when we die and leave these bodies-we will have a home in heaven, an eternal body made for us by God himself and not by human hands. We grow weary in our present bodies, and we long for the day when we will put on our heavenly bodies like new clothing. For we will not be spirits without bodies. Our dying bodies make us groan and sigh, but it's not that we want to die and have no bodies at all. We want to slip into our new bodies so that these dying bodies will be swallowed up by EVERLASTING LIFE.
    2 CORINTHIANS 5:1-4